Gay adoption - CathNews New Zealand https://cathnews.co.nz Catholic News New Zealand Mon, 26 May 2014 02:05:35 +0000 en-NZ hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 https://cathnews.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/cropped-cathnewsfavicon-32x32.jpg Gay adoption - CathNews New Zealand https://cathnews.co.nz 32 32 70145804 UK Catholic parents oppose their sons' adoption by gays https://cathnews.co.nz/2014/05/27/uk-catholic-parents-oppose-sons-adoption-gays/ Mon, 26 May 2014 19:13:00 +0000 http://cathnews.co.nz/?p=58321

A Catholic couple in the United Kingdom have failed in a legal attempt to block the adoption of two of their sons by a gay couple. The parents, of Slovak Roma origin, had asked that the children be adopted by a Catholic family. The parents' four children were taken into care in Kent last year. Read more

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A Catholic couple in the United Kingdom have failed in a legal attempt to block the adoption of two of their sons by a gay couple.

The parents, of Slovak Roma origin, had asked that the children be adopted by a Catholic family.

The parents' four children were taken into care in Kent last year.

Social workers found the children were dirty, unkempt and overly chastised, and the older ones were not going to school.

The father admitted to having beaten his children.

But a court found they were unwilling to change their parenting or accept criticism.

So the two youngest boys, aged two and four, were put up for adoption by court order.

Mrs Justice Theis, who made the initial order, said that any adoption placement should be "sensitive to their needs and identity".

But the parents argued the plan by the Kent County Council to place the boys with a gay couple did not fulfil this.

The parents said the adopters' lifestyle was contrary to their Roma culture and the adoption plan amounted to social engineering.

They also said the adoption could cause psychological harm for the boys later in life because of the clash between their birth culture and the lifestyle of the adopting couple.

"The children will not be able to be brought up in the Catholic faith because of the conflicts between Catholicism and homosexuality," the parents continued.

But the High Court upheld the adoption plan.

Sir James Munby, president of the Family Division, said "The children's welfare needs outweigh the impact that adoption would have on their Roma identity".

Any judge should "respect the opinions of those who come here from a foreign land", he said.

But he had to judge matters according to English law and by reference to "the standards of reasonable men and women in contemporary English society", Sir James added.

He described as "unnecessary and hurtful" a court report submitted by social workers that stated the parents views on homosexuality could be perceived as bigoted.

The parents say they will appeal the decision to the European Court of Human Rights.

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Why California's three-parent law was inevitable https://cathnews.co.nz/2012/09/18/why-californias-three-parent-law-was-inevitable/ Mon, 17 Sep 2012 19:32:54 +0000 http://cathnews.co.nz/?p=33605

A California bill allowing children to have three legal parents will not help children, but instead will unnecessarily complicate their lives. The supposed need for California's SB 1476 flowed directly from the drive to normalize same sex parenting and recognize same sex unions. Can a child have three parents? If California State Senator Mark Leno Read more

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A California bill allowing children to have three legal parents will not help children, but instead will unnecessarily complicate their lives. The supposed need for California's SB 1476 flowed directly from the drive to normalize same sex parenting and recognize same sex unions.

Can a child have three parents? If California State Senator Mark Leno has his way, children in California will be able to have three legal parents. Before we dismiss SB 1476 as another example of California Weird, we had best look into it more closely. After all, the bill has passed both houses of the California Assembly and is awaiting Governor Brown's signature or veto.

I believe this development was inevitable, more inevitable in fact than the much-vaunted inevitability of gay marriage. Once we started trying to normalize parenting by same-sex couples and redefine marriage to remove the dual-gender requirement, we had to end up with triple-parenting.

A deeper look at the whole picture surrounding SB 1476 reveals that not only should the three-parent law fail, same-sex "marriage" should fail as well. As we will see, embedded in this bill is an appalling power-grab by the state, and a grotesque misrepresentation of the facts by the bill's authors.

Why Normalizing Same-Sex Parenting Inevitably Led to Triple-Parenting

Let us state an obvious fact: a same-sex couple cannot have a child unless someone gives them one, or part of one, namely either an egg or a sperm. If two women, for instance, decide they want to have a baby, they must still involve a man in the process. They can use some form of artificial reproductive technology with sperm from a man who is unknown to them. Or, they can find an accommodating friend to have sex with one of them, or to donate his sperm.

The question is this: how is the same-sex couple going to manage the relationship with this third party? In some cases, the women do not want any relationship with the father. Our government will give them this. Through the legal institution of anonymous sperm donation, the government agrees perpetually to separate a mother and a father from a legal relationship with each other. Read more

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Same sex adoption - different rules for men and women? https://cathnews.co.nz/2012/06/19/same-sex-adoption-different-rules-men-women/ Mon, 18 Jun 2012 19:30:55 +0000 http://cathnews.co.nz/?p=27726

If the the law is changed to allow same sex adoption will the new law treat female couples and male couples equally? Under existing law it is illegal for a single male to adopt a female. If the law is changed to allow same sex couples to adopt, will a male couple be allowed to Read more

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If the the law is changed to allow same sex adoption will the new law treat female couples and male couples equally?

Under existing law it is illegal for a single male to adopt a female. If the law is changed to allow same sex couples to adopt, will a male couple be allowed to do so?

Is there a distinction to be made between the effect on a child of being raised by two women, and the effect on a child of being raised by two men?

The law already makes a distinction between men and women says John Roughan, single men can get an adoption order only for boys.

He points out that the act (section 4, subsection 2) expressly excludes adoption of a female by a sole male applicant unless there are exceptional circumstances.

"I suppose the legislators had heterosexual men in mind. It will be interesting to see what Ms Kaye and co-reformer Kevin Hague will do with that clause if they produce a bill to include male couples" says Roughan.

Read John Roughan's column in The New Zealand Herald

John Roughan is a Weekend Herald Columnist

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Support for adoptions by gay couples crosses political boundaries https://cathnews.co.nz/2012/05/29/support-for-adoptions-by-gay-couples-crosses-political-boundries/ Mon, 28 May 2012 19:30:34 +0000 http://cathnews.co.nz/?p=26165

Three private members' bills which would enable same-sex adoption are either in the Parliamentary members' ballot or are being drafted. One of them is being developed by National's Nikki Kay and Green's Kevin Hague. In an email to gayexpress on Monday Hague said "the cat's out of the bag" after the National Party's northern regional Read more

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Three private members' bills which would enable same-sex adoption are either in the Parliamentary members' ballot or are being drafted.

One of them is being developed by National's Nikki Kay and Green's Kevin Hague.

In an email to gayexpress on Monday Hague said "the cat's out of the bag" after the National Party's northern regional conference in Auckland last weekend passed a remit that supports adoption by couples who are in a civil union.

Hague confirmed that, "Nikki Kaye and I are working on an adoption reform Bill, which we hope will be ready soon and may be picked up by the Government.

"Contrary to the impression given by the Herald, it's actually a comprehensive reform, but one of its features is clearing the way for adoption by same-sex couples (and other queer people actually)."

The National party's national conference in July is expected to debate a gay adoption remit, although, should it be adopted as Government policy, such a matter would be a conscience vote in Parliament.

The Prime Minister John Key says he would give initial support to potential legislation to legalise adoption by gay couples.

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